If you can check all of these boxes, sally forth into retirement and relax: You enjoy excellent health. You are happily married. Your children are close to you, both emotionally and physically. You have friendships outside your workplace. Your home is affordable and suitable for senior status. You belong to a lively, always-changing, always-challenging faith community. You have a capacity to try new things and learn new skills. You have adequate pension income and investments. Most of us can check some of these boxes, but probably not all. Some of us have no checkmarks. Here’s what the categories mean and what, if anything, you can do about them as retirement looms: Health. The body inevitably fails, early for some, later for others. You can give yourself a break with three basic steps:Lose weight now. Stay far away from obesity.Exercise more, including walking, cardio workouts, lifting weights, strengthening your core, improving balance and … [Read more...]
Advent politics
They almost seem to come around together: Election Day and Advent. A secular moment and a sacred moment, moving in tandem, as always. In our congregations, pastors are reminded not to “bring politics into the pulpit.” No endorsing of candidates or parties, not even a discussion of the year’s critical issues. Leave that to the experts, some will say. Don’t make people uncomfortable, especially large donors. Then will come the four Sundays of Advent, and what will we hear? Politics, politics, politics. Issues of power and wealth, control and freedom, corruption and redemption. We will discover that Jesus devoted an estimated two-thirds of his teaching to wealth and power — the very topics that we want to avoid in Sunday worship. Advent 1: “Justice and righteousness,” said Jeremiah. “Distress among nations,” said Jesus, “fear and foreboding” among the people, “dissipation and drunkenness” springing a “trap.” Advent 2: Exile after defeat in battle, but now a glorious return to … [Read more...]
Parents: Be not anxious
Generations disagree about almost everything — from music to hair to food to the ideal places to live. I wonder if any disagreement can match the perplexity, disdain and harsh words erupting over how to parent. Each generation looks at other generations and at their neighbors and marvels at the wrongheaded ways parents raise children. Parents are either too permissive or too controlling, too lax in table manners or too persnickety, too casual about sex or too puritanical, too uninterested in their kids’ school performance or too obsessed with it, too hands-off in religion or too compelling. I remember encountering the phenomenon called “helicopter parenting” where parents are over-involved in their children’s lives — to the point of suing teachers to get better grades for their children and sitting in on college admissions interviews. One high school teacher says the hardest job he faces is dealing with parents. I saw the outcome: entitled children with minimal … [Read more...]
Two questions for church planning
Of the several factors that go into church program planning, four need to be abandoned right away. We’ve always done this. We can’t stand the whining and conflict that will ensue if we drop a program. It doesn’t cost much money, so why not continue it? New ideas are too expensive. Think about it. In 1850, the United States had always had slavery — did that make it worth continuing? Women had no rights — worth perpetuating? Churches forced the poor to sit in special galleries or to have their own churches — accomplishing anything? Progress didn’t come from perpetuating the known, but from asking two questions: Is it working? Is it worthy? Those are the two questions that ought to guide church planning today. Our record on asking the is-it-working question is spotty. In many cases, we just don’t know if something is working. We don’t have the metrics to measure success or failure, or to get inside outcomes and understand their meaning. And we often lack … [Read more...]
Easter is the real deal
Christianity lost the battle for Christmas a long time ago. There was too much money to be made and too much fantasy and nostalgia to be found in a holiday about children, gifts, elves, Santa Claus, reindeer, snowmen and snow. Maybe just as well. Christmas was never a serious Christian holiday anyway. It was invented to compete with pagan sun rituals. It was populated by evangelists writing many years after the incarnation who wrote four different narratives to explain the meaning (not the historicity) of events known in legend, not in observable fact. Easter, on the other hand, is the real deal. It was an actual event, seen by many, rooted in history. From the empty tomb flowed the faith that changed the world. To be sure, modern Christianity must engage in minor skirmishes with bunnies, flowers and candy. But mostly, this holy day is our story to tell. We should be careful and creative in how we tell it. Easter is poorly served if we make too much of the pageantry. The … [Read more...]
Good Christian leaders
If you have been part of an organization, work group, movement or sports team, you know that leadership matters — often more than any other component. A poorly-led organization rarely gets its work done, much less lives into its potential. A well-led organization succeeds as a group effort and makes each individual stronger. You also know that leadership can be a mystery. People aspire to leadership who have no business running anything. Some, on the other hand, rise to the occasion despite unlikely credentials or experience. I think we recognize good leadership when we see it. What we don’t comprehend is how some organizations have a knack for selecting the wrong people as leaders. “What were they thinking?” is a common question. Churches are just as susceptible to poor leadership as any other organization. In fact, I would argue that the relentless decline in American Christianity over the past 50 years is primarily a consequence of poor leadership. The world changed and church … [Read more...]
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