Preventing pastoral depreciation
In her Pulitzer Prize-winning novel Gilead (Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2004, p. 6), Marilynne Robinson has the main character, a minister who is reaching the end of his pastorate, write the following in his journal: "That's the strangest thing about this life, about being in the ministry. People change the subject when they see you coming. And then sometimes those very same people come into your study and tell you the most remarkable things. There's a lot under the surface of life, everyone knows that. A lot of malice and dread and guilt, and so much loneliness, where you wouldn't really expect to find it, either."
It is not surprising that the Rev. Ames' observations accord with a recent survey taken among contemporary preachers in which 63 per cent of them admit that they feel lonely and isolated in their work (Outlook, Sept 11, 2006 issue). This happens primarily because pastors are often distanced from their members as human beings and diminished in their fundamental existence.